Ok, seriously. My last day of full-time, paid employment was on Friday, April 29th. Since then, I have spent my days lounging on the couch, reading trashy romance novels and eating bon bons. Because isnt that what all SAHMs do?
Ha. Dont I know better.
I have, in no particular order:
- deep cleaned the bathrooms
- deep cleaned the bedrooms
- deep cleaned the kitchen, living room, hallways, entryway, and laundry room
- purged our house of unneccessary stuff (a truck AND an SUV full, to be exact)
- discovered that my husband has 62 dress shirts (yes, I counted)
- discovered that my husband had the same number of coats as ALL of our children combined
- successfully convinced said husband to donate coats to the local shelter
- kept up on the laundry for more than 2 days for the first time in my married life
- taken the girls to the park
- taken the girls to Walmart
- taken the girls to the mall
- taken the girls to the park
- taken the girls to get coffee
- taken the girls to the grocery store
- taken the girls to the park
- taken the girls to playdates with friends
- taken the girls to visit Grandpa & Grandma at the office
- taken the girls to the park
- taken the girls on a walk
- played with my new mixer
- made brownies from scratch (first time ever)
- promised no less than 4 sewing projects for the girls
- answered the what are we doing today question no less than 3 times per day
- tried to coordinate a 7 and 8 year olds baseball team snack schedule
- tried to keep said 7 and 8 year olds from having a sword fight with metal bats in the dugout
- watched the 30 and 40 year olds consider having a sword fight with metal bats in the big boys dugout
- tried to plant my garden umpteen times, only to be thwarted by snow. In May.
- reveled in the marvelous wonder that is nap time.
In short, I have been insanely busy, but also having insane amounts of fun. The girls make me laugh daily, I get kisses and snuggles consistently, and my heart is full.
I am grateful to all of you for sticking around, but I needed time to just be a mama again. Remember what that is like. Laugh at Violet as she realizes, again, that Mommy is staying home to play with her all day, and proceeds to do the happy dance. Revel in the fact that we can go to the park in the middle of the day. Watch Madi cover herself and the entire kitchen in flour as she helps me cook. Snuggle Kat when her tummy hurts. Cook a dinner that takes longer than 15 minutes to prepare.
Seriously, I could spend all day, every day cleaning my house and NEVER be done. That is just a fact of life with children. But I have missed the contact, encouragement, and comraderie of my friends. I am trying to find a balance. Thanks for being patient during the process.





11 comments:
I'm so glad you are enjoying your time home! Those park days sound like fun. It's still to muddy for me to venture there much.
Glad you're back!
Welcome my dear to the amazing world of "trying to find a balance". Praising God that you are back home with your sweet girls where you belong.
Get ready to be busier than you where when you worked :-) but busy in a much better way! I would not change being a SAHM for the world.
By the way, you forgot that all SAHM's watch soap operas all day. LOL can't forget that one dear! Get is straight.
Continue to enjoy the beauty of being with your little ones. Don't kill yourself trying to keep the house super neat though... cause it is only going to drive you crazy. This coming from a super OCD mommy.
Oh how I have missed you though!
No apologies needed. My blog has been seriously suffering lately and I have decided the guilt is not worth it. My blog is for me,not anyone else. Although I love the feedback and friendships, I can't guilt myself over something like my blog any longer.
I think you need to go back to work for a while so you can 'rest.'
Blogging has been hit or miss for me the past few weeks. Real life gets in the way. But then I feel like something is missing and it is! I love my blogging buds and writing is therapeutic for me.
Take a break whenever you need it, we'll always be here when you get back!
We have missed you, Snort Sister!
And I'm still cracking up about the sword fights. Eek!
So happy that you get to stay with the girls... what a blessing!
Visiting from Beth Z's blog. Your girls are adorable and I'm glad you're able to be home now to enjoy them. My "babies" are 18 and 23. I miss those days of having them all to myself...such fun we had.
Glad that the "blogoverse" is back in order. You are a true blessing. Glad to be able to help get you home. I love you.
Glad you are home with your beautiful babes! We just complain about missing you because we love you!
I am so glad you get to be a SAHM. I was for years and don't regret a minute. You have been incredibly busy - deep cleaning - wish I could get motivated to do that. I did a lot of decluttering, but not the cleaning.
This has been the craziest May in a long time!
We do miss you but you have your priorities straight! Even if Blogger doesn't agree!
So glad that you're willing to make the sacrifice to blog so that Blogger will work right for the rest of us. Hope the novelty of staying home wears off soon. That list of yours is making the rest of us SAHMs look bad.
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